There have been a lot of sore losers since election results were announced — plenty of political pouting, arguing, and Facebook un-friending. The losing side wants us to stop gloating and just get on with life. Ordinarily, I’d agree, but not this time. They want us to stop now, even though all throughout election season, these same people didn’t stop making inflammatory attacks and absurd claims about the Nazi-Communist-Socialist-liberal agenda, the Black man in the White House, gay marriage bringing on the apocalypse, baby killers, sluts wanting you pay for them to have sex, “legitimate” rape vs. girls who “rape easy,” and so on. In spite of all this “fair and balanced” rhetoric, conservatives still lost fair and square. But now they want everyone to stop talking about the election and to shut up with all our celebrating.
Well, you know what? Fuck that! Fuck that, because YOU are the ones who lit the fires. YOU are the ones who started shit. YOU are the ones who fought to take away people’s rights to their lives and their bodies. YOU are the ones being degrading and insulting. So damn right we’re going to express how absolutely thrilled we are that we shut that shit down!
There’s been so much bigotry throughout politics lately, an incredible amount of sexism, homophobia, and racism. And those who support those ideals — or those who can so casually excuse them — deserve to be called on it.
This is the most politically involved that I’ve ever been in my life, because as many other women realized — our rights are being threatened. And I’m finding it really hard to separate people from their politics, because beliefs matter. They impact your worldview and your behavior toward others.
You’re entitled to believe in whatever you want, but you are not entitled to impose your beliefs on me. And I don’t care if it’s under the guise of religion or if you believe that God Himself personally spoke to you. Because when you start forcing your beliefs on me, it becomes abundantly clear that your “traditional values” are less about following a moral code and more about oppressing others in the name of your self-serving ideology. Those are not values that I will abide by. You are not allowed to infringe on MY rights, MY body, MY choices, no matter how “righteous” or “justified” you believe yourself to be. Your beliefs do not get to trump my freedom. Your sense of entitlement over others’ personal lives, your selfish belief that you have the right to control others — these are complete and utter boundary violations. How dare you say that your beliefs matter more than mine! That kind of arrogance and lack of compassion astound me.
When our rights are attacked; when we’re treated with condescension and our morals, maturity, and ability to make decisions about our own bodies and lives are questioned; when the definition of rape is twisted to benefit the rapist and punish women — well, damn right we’re going to take it personally! We’re going to defend ourselves against insulting, selfish, and paternalistic attacks against our humanity. We’re going to stand up against sanctimonious bullies who use religion and legal maneuvers to chip away at our civil rights. We’re going to vote for the people who actually respect our constitutional and moral rights to life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness. And we’re going to question the integrity of those who are so willing to throw our rights under the bus. How dare you speak about freedom when you are so intent on attacking ours.
In this election, we had more on the line than you did. We had more to lose. And guess what? YOU built that. So hell yeah — of course we’re going to celebrate and we’re going to do a bit of gloating about how we prevailed.
We won. You lost. Deal with it.